Why my lover is refusing my love?

we both started to love from 2006,from schooling onwards, when we started to love she told me,that our parents should accept for our love.so, you should be good and settled in a job.Then i selected multimedia and worked hard to settle. Then our love gone good, one day she told me to make a pause for our love and continue it after final exam of 12th std. After we didn't talked each other.At the end of 12th std final exam we both saw each other and continue our love. Then at Feb 20,2009, she again stopped to talk with me,no messages & no phone calls.Now my college overs, i got selected by 8 companies with good salary, with that news i gone to talk with her after 2 years, she told me to do not disturb her, never come in my life again,just forget everything. without reasons she refuses me, now i do not know why she refuses me, i do not have any bad habits,she was a good girl.now i also got another opportunity to work as lecturer in my college after Pg degree within 2 years, they promised me to give 30,000 as starting salary, by freelancing works i'll get minimum 20-30,000 rs additionally every month, as minimum i'll get 50,-60,000 rs.im settled within 2 years after finishing my PG degree. she was responsible for my development, if she was not for me,i planned to quit myself.Please give me a solution.